General Femdom Cuckold

It’s a 2-way Street

Female domination is by definition focused on the female. Her needs, her desires, her pleasure. A superior female can expect to have every single thing under her roof done as she says. She can ask amazing things from her boyfriend/husband/slave. Men in chastity are more attentive and giving than other men. Now while this is a wonderful thing, and breeds real submission – there is a side effect…a serious side effect. Chaste men have boundless amounts of energy. Their entire mind is focused on two things…their denied orgasm, and you – the dominant female. This changes somewhat after time, but not anytime soon.

Having a chaste man can actually be somewhat annoying – unless you deal with it properly. You must acknowledge his sexual denial, and you must heighten it. Do not ignore him. Do not ignore his chastity. Do not ignore his sexuality. His sexuality is the only way your able to never have to dishes again. Never have to do laundry again. Never have to mop, or broom, or vacuum, or drive to work, or cook.

If you ignore your husband/boyfriend’s sexuality when you are first starting off, you are setting this new element of your relationship up to fail. He will become resentful, and most probably call it all off – before any serious training has even begun. This is really not a lot of work, and does not take a lot of energy. (more…)

KSD-G3 User Review (Video)

I’d like to thank the user that submitted this video to me reviewing his experiences with the KSD-G3. As he mentions, it’s a wonderful product but has a few negative side effects. I personally use this attachment as well and can sympathize with the user based ont he discomfort of night time erections, and seems to be something that the chastity community as a whole is experiencing. That being said, hopefully the designers of the KSD-G3 will learn from their users’ experiences and improve the product.

I think “ball-trapper” chastity devices have come a long way in security and comfort, but they still have a long way to go. The CB-6000 has been out for a while now, and I wonder if by now perhaps a newer version with more comfort and security must be coming close to the end of the pipeline of design.

Long term chastity is something that man men and women alike are yearning for – and I am very much looking forward to the day that a simple 1 size fits all chastity device can have 100% security and comfort… I don’t know how realistic that idea might be, but I think necessity breeds innovation, and based on that – I think we can look forward to some products that offer close to 100% security for the majority of men. However I think it will always be an up hill battle for the “growers” instead of the “showers” – those of us cursed with tiny cocks that grow into normal sized cocks will always have a problem with ball trapper devices until some viable solution is found.

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Forced Subjugation vs Willful Participation

The Forced Subjugation approach

This group claims to obtain superior results by making it impossible for the male to escape control and punishment. Proponents of this method usually advocate restricting the male’s movement during discipline to prevent him from struggling or escaping. They are in favor of using higher security chastity devices and sometimes use blackmailing to ensure compliance. They believe that it is natural for a male to initially struggle and try to resist control, but that once he understands there is no escape he will quickly lose any desire to resist (in animal training lingo, his resistance has become an “extinct” behavior due to its ineffectiveness). Some women who follow this method care little about how the male feels about his situation, and often even enjoy seeing their male’s internal resistance defeated (“breaking”). But a large majority of women who buy into this “forced subjugation” training philosophy are simply trying to take their male to the “breaking” point quickly and hoping he will soon come to accept his condition, enabling a milder (and less tiring) form of discipline down the road.

The Willful Participation approach

The second school of thought claims to obtain superior results by putting the male in a state in which he will offer voluntary compliance. This philosophy advocates the training of a male in his inner, mental world. It aims at persuading him to eventually relinquish his independence, in favor of a more fulfilling role in acceptance of female authority. This group claims that the quality of voluntary servitude is long-lasting and cannot be approached by coercive methods, and that it is a male’s self-image and value system that needs to be reframed before lasting change can be seen in his behavior. Proponents of this philosophy do not always refrain from coercion, especially in the beginning stages of training – however, they invariably single out the budding of a male’s voluntary compliance (“willful participation”) as the “breaking point” to achieve.

Different interpretations of male chastity

Any male training approach can much benefit from increased seminal volume, as this fluid is known to function as an intoxicant, overcoming his logic and greatly reducing his mental defenses, leaving ample opportunity for behavior modification. However, while the forced subjugation approach sees chastity as merely a way to keep the male frustrated and receptive, willful participation exploits increased levels of sexual desire in a male to reframe his sexual identity. Willful participation proponents emphasize the sexualization of obedience in a male’s mind, mirroring the all too infrequent ”spontaneous” subservience of naturally submissive males. Obedience and humiliation are sexualized through chastity and by association/anchoring until the male starts to see his own subjugation and self-sacrifice as the most appealing (or the only conceivable) form of sexual relief.

Criticism

Some opponents of the forced subjugation philosophy often refer to it as antiquate or barbaric. However, it is widely believed that only the lack of legal infrastructure has delayed its adoption. In a recently conducted poll, only 15% of women were in favor of a paramilitary “male police” enforcing pre-marital engagement contracts and wedding certificates with male ownership clauses (citizenship resignation, personhood renouncement, personal ownership affidavits). Likely, as feminist groups and female-owned corporations continue to lobby public opinion and policy will eventually change. A large number of women who currently practice the forced subjugation philosophy inside close doors are then expected to come out of the closet tilting the statistics.

Opponents of the “willful participation” philosophy often complain about inconsistent compliance and intermittent usefulness of males undergoing this type of training. However, DreamLover Labs products add to a regular willful participation regimen the many benefits of positive punishment and negative reinforcement and guarantee consistent obedience even at early training stages.

For the time being, the “willful participation” philosophy is poised to become a favorite among newly liberated women. If you are new to male training, unless you have a particularly stubborn male on your hands, you will find this approach a lot easier as it requires less supervision and monetary investment. For reasons of practicality and convenience, most school counselors recommend young girls to solve their boyfriend problems with the willful participation method, further accelerating its spread among young couples.

Source: Dream Lover Labs

Evil First Girlfriend, Non-Fiction

Evil sadistic girlfriends. Ever had one? I did….my first one. She was truly evil and sadistic – and perhaps molded me into who I am and what I desire today. I wasn’t always a sissified eneuch of a boyfriend. My penis castrated (not literally) but hasn’t been used in so long, in might as well be. I think my first girlfriend planted the seed for what I would become now in my later 20′s. 

It started off slow – she gave me my first blowjob. Because it was my first, I figured it was normal for it to hurt because of her teeth rubbing my cock. That was normal right? just enjoy it….just enjoy it – I told myself. I think she trained me slowly, without me even knowing until long after she dumped me for a bigger, stronger man. 

She would love to lay down with me, and gently with her fingertips stroke my cock – we could do that for hours…we would watch movies, and she would just lightly draw circles on the bottom of the head of my penis. I payed no attention to the movies…I was in agony…for hours on end, she kept precum flowing out of me. Then she’d turn over and fall asleep. Sometimes she would wrap her legs around me, as you see in this picture – and she’d stroke me hard – making me cum…then – without any room to breath, she kept stroking…the sensitivity exploding in my loins, after having just cum. She’d say “c’mon c’mon real men have plenty of orgasms one after the other! don’t you want to be a real man?” – and she’d force three or four consecutive orgasms out of me. I’d be crying, I’d be exhausted – but I didn’t want to lose her. 

The first time she slid a finger in my ass, I was shocked to say the least. She said “let’s just try it – this is what a girl has to take, so why shouldn’t you? It’ll feel good don’t worry!” – before I knew it, there were 2 fingers, then three…the tears were flowing, but my cock was still hard. When we started sleeping over at each others houses, I’d wake up sometimes in the middle of the night and my legs would be up, and she’d already have one of her dildos deep inside me, holding it as if it were her cock, and she was fucking me. If you think about it – my girlfriend anally raped me on a constant basis. But I loved it, and I loved her. It drove me wild, it kept me interested.

I caught her cheating on me…publicly even. Everyone knew. The first time – I saw her kissing another boy at school. When I confronted her about it – her hand immediately went to rest on my cock – over my pants. “Sweety you know your not such a good kisser, sometimes I just want a really nice kiss you know? It doesn’t mean I don’t love you…I love YOU!” she’d say to me. Oh ok…thats normal I guess right? Nothing wrong with that…why shouldn’t she have a nice kiss once in a while? She deserves it! 

She was the school whore.

Everyone fucked my girlfriend, and everyone knew she was always cheating on me…but honestly…didn’t she deserve it? “Sweety you know I never even feel your cock when we have sex…don’t I deserve to have some fun too?” She’d say to me. I’d ask buddies, “hey have you seen my girl?” – and they’d respond “ya dude, I just payed her 5 bucks to blow me in the bathroom” – my heart sinking. So I’d ask “Hey, did it hurt at all?” – which resulted in a huge laugh…”hurt? why the fuck would it hurt dude?” … ya… she had trained me from the start. Sex and blowjobs, and anything sexual isn’t always supposed to hurt. It isn’t always supposed to end with me crying. I had always known that I think…but – she was my first girlfriend, and I was afraid of being alone I guess. 

I had a lot of amazing experiences with her – she was really quite an amazing young girl.

Cuckold Caption, Training for Bull

This is a wonderful example from the caption section from inside the members area at the cuckold lifestyle documentary website - femdombride.com (ya! a huge caption section, and a wallpaper section too…). I think  training your man to understand that he is inferior – that he is not anymore a male, is important. That other males are more virile and potent that he is, and are better able to satisfy the sexual needs of a superior female. Having your boyfriend/husband sexually pleasure your bull is an amazing idea as well – don’t worry about your hubby/boyfriend…show him lots of porn of bigger men, stronger men, with bigger cocks, all while slowly stroking him…he will associate big masculine men, and big cocks, with pleasure eventually. The hard part is finding a bull that enjoys fucking your hubby’s mouth and bum.

This is a step that is probably pretty far down in the training regimen of your sissy husband – it takes quite a bit of work to get to this point, especially if your husband has been resistant…training a straight guy to suck cock can be quite difficult. If your hubby is submissive to begin with it will be a little bit easier.

A Good Femdom Routine

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This is another wonderful gallery from Femdombride.com – the lifestyle documentary website that follows around a couple that live a 24/7 female superior marriage. It’s a great example of what superior female should do on an almost nightly basis – at least until your male is sufficiently trained. It requires a lot of attention, and a lot of discipline on the female’s end. It requires working your boyfriend/husband’s cock until the precum is flowing, and then having the nerve to simply lock it up.

This may seem easy, but really it takes a lot of training and discipline from the female perspective as well. You still love your boyfriend/husband, and often it’s like a puppy…you look at it’s big round eyes – begging you. You have to be strong enough to deny it. To push it to it’s edge – so that the mental reconditioning can truly take place. You must use this awesome tool, his horniness to make both of your lives happy.

Does the superior female not deserve a PROPER penis to enjoy? Does it not deserve to have all the chores done? I firmly believe that women are the superior end of the species, and we reconditioned males are pioneering a new age. I do believe that there are still men out there (with big manly cocks) that are needed…many superior females love to be pounded and dominated by real men – but as reconditioned sissy males, we are not to decide who our wives/girlfriends enjoy…

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Being a cuckolded submissive husband/boyfriend is extremely hard at first – it is proof positive that we are not good enough, and our egos are initially bruised. It hurts – even if you fantasize about this kind of thing, you’ll find yourself wracked with jealousy and hurt – this is part of the training process. It helps us to realize how valuable our girlfriends/wives are! How lucky we are to have them! And how happy we should be that they are enjoy a cock that satisfies them – that they are enjoying intimacy with someone that can give them everything they want – because be honest…if you could do everything your wife/girlfriend’s lover could – you would not be a sissified husband slave.

Chastity and servitude are our savior – why keep up the charade? Why keep lying to ourselves even? Embrace your dicklet – embrace your constant overwhelming horniness and put it to good use!

Compliance Conditioning

Note: Unforunately the video I was linking to on youtube was removed by the user that posted it

This video is really quite something else. It reminds me of something Andy Warhol might make – and watching it myself, I was reminded of the feeling I used to get when I was underoing serious training, before I was really completely compliant – the feeling I got when I began to understand that I was a subservient male, and thats how it should be. That theres nothing abnormal about my life revolving completely around my girlfriend – that we are not equals, that other men are not my equal, but they are better than me. More manly, more capable – in every single way.

I suggest watching this a few times over if you are trying to become a subservient male, and if you are a superior female – I’d recommend having your hubby/boyfriend watch this on a loop for a few hours.