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The One Goal of a Cuckold

There’s only one goal in a cuckolded man’s life and that is to keep his Mistress or Goddess happy. The cuckold wants to keep his Goddess pleased with him even if it means licking her feet and shoes clean, giving blowjobs to dildos or even another man’s cock, doing all the household chores, being humiliated time and time again and also being sexual deprived by her. It’s the last item on this list that plays a key factor in why a cuckolded boyfriend or husband will devote himself to keeping his Mistress happy. Wouldn’t you want to keep someone happy if they were the only person who is able to allow you to feel your cock or reach an orgasm? By keeping their key holding ladies happy, they undoubtedly increase their chances of being allowed an orgasm….displease the Mistress and being let out of chastity can be pushed back by weeks let alone being allowed to cum! Put a chastity device on a man and suddenly it becomes clear as to why females are the superior gender.

In this gallery of Femdom Bride, Starla was fired from her job and is obviously very upset. But after a little attention and  service from her cuckold husband Randy, we notice that she seems to feel a bit better. Randy, it seems, knows his proper role and does a good job at keeping his Mistress as happy as she can be. We can be sure that it is only because Randy is so swift in assessing the situation and jumping at the opportunity to please his wife and Mistress Starla that he avoids being the her taking out her distress on him. And this is exactly how a well trained boyfriend or husband should be. Women should not have to asks us to make them happy whether it be by doing the dishes or getting on the floor and worshipping her feet. In fact, most women, even those who are not training cuckolded men, get upset when they have to ask us to compliment them or do something for them. This is because everytime they have to ask something of us, it shows them that we are not considerate enough to think about it on our own and this leads her to believe that we didn’t think about it because we were not thinking about her. You can see how bad this is because if we are not thinking about her, then the assumption is that she is not important to us. It is amazing how differently your mind works when you are in chastity. Because, as men, we have sexual thoughts throughout the day, we can’t help but link those thoughts to thoughts about our Mistress since she is the one now in power over our sexual gratification. Suddenly you go from giving no thought as to what little things you could do to make her smile, to scrounging around for any idea  of what to do to make her just a little bit happier! Ladies, if you want the perfect man in your life, you don’t need to replace the one you have, you just need to put him in his proper place  with a little patience, a chastity device, and a lot of training.

Ruined Orgasm

Goddess Starla sure knows how to take control of her pathetic husband Randy! After being in chastity for a long time, Randy balls are almost at their full capacity and are swollen with his liquid man juice. Swollen balls, for those who might not know, are sensitive and need to be given release. Although the average person would believe that the only way to get the semen out is to give a guy an explosive orgasm, Starla has a different thought on this problem… she decides to ruin Randy’s orgasm.  How does one ruin an orgasm? It’s a pretty simple and evil technique. As soon as her poor whimp of a husband passes over the edge and is about to cum whether there is any stimulation or not, she lets go of his dick and stops Randy from having any feeling as his semen spews forth. Thus leaving Randy -who is even more feeble and  worthless than before- without any sexual gratification or satisfaction whatsoever! This Femdombride is absolutely brilliant!

Forced Subjugation vs Willful Participation

The Forced Subjugation approach

This group claims to obtain superior results by making it impossible for the male to escape control and punishment. Proponents of this method usually advocate restricting the male’s movement during discipline to prevent him from struggling or escaping. They are in favor of using higher security chastity devices and sometimes use blackmailing to ensure compliance. They believe that it is natural for a male to initially struggle and try to resist control, but that once he understands there is no escape he will quickly lose any desire to resist (in animal training lingo, his resistance has become an “extinct” behavior due to its ineffectiveness). Some women who follow this method care little about how the male feels about his situation, and often even enjoy seeing their male’s internal resistance defeated (“breaking”). But a large majority of women who buy into this “forced subjugation” training philosophy are simply trying to take their male to the “breaking” point quickly and hoping he will soon come to accept his condition, enabling a milder (and less tiring) form of discipline down the road.

The Willful Participation approach

The second school of thought claims to obtain superior results by putting the male in a state in which he will offer voluntary compliance. This philosophy advocates the training of a male in his inner, mental world. It aims at persuading him to eventually relinquish his independence, in favor of a more fulfilling role in acceptance of female authority. This group claims that the quality of voluntary servitude is long-lasting and cannot be approached by coercive methods, and that it is a male’s self-image and value system that needs to be reframed before lasting change can be seen in his behavior. Proponents of this philosophy do not always refrain from coercion, especially in the beginning stages of training – however, they invariably single out the budding of a male’s voluntary compliance (“willful participation”) as the “breaking point” to achieve.

Different interpretations of male chastity

Any male training approach can much benefit from increased seminal volume, as this fluid is known to function as an intoxicant, overcoming his logic and greatly reducing his mental defenses, leaving ample opportunity for behavior modification. However, while the forced subjugation approach sees chastity as merely a way to keep the male frustrated and receptive, willful participation exploits increased levels of sexual desire in a male to reframe his sexual identity. Willful participation proponents emphasize the sexualization of obedience in a male’s mind, mirroring the all too infrequent ”spontaneous” subservience of naturally submissive males. Obedience and humiliation are sexualized through chastity and by association/anchoring until the male starts to see his own subjugation and self-sacrifice as the most appealing (or the only conceivable) form of sexual relief.

Criticism

Some opponents of the forced subjugation philosophy often refer to it as antiquate or barbaric. However, it is widely believed that only the lack of legal infrastructure has delayed its adoption. In a recently conducted poll, only 15% of women were in favor of a paramilitary “male police” enforcing pre-marital engagement contracts and wedding certificates with male ownership clauses (citizenship resignation, personhood renouncement, personal ownership affidavits). Likely, as feminist groups and female-owned corporations continue to lobby public opinion and policy will eventually change. A large number of women who currently practice the forced subjugation philosophy inside close doors are then expected to come out of the closet tilting the statistics.

Opponents of the “willful participation” philosophy often complain about inconsistent compliance and intermittent usefulness of males undergoing this type of training. However, DreamLover Labs products add to a regular willful participation regimen the many benefits of positive punishment and negative reinforcement and guarantee consistent obedience even at early training stages.

For the time being, the “willful participation” philosophy is poised to become a favorite among newly liberated women. If you are new to male training, unless you have a particularly stubborn male on your hands, you will find this approach a lot easier as it requires less supervision and monetary investment. For reasons of practicality and convenience, most school counselors recommend young girls to solve their boyfriend problems with the willful participation method, further accelerating its spread among young couples.

Source: Dream Lover Labs

Compliance Conditioning

Note: Unforunately the video I was linking to on youtube was removed by the user that posted it

This video is really quite something else. It reminds me of something Andy Warhol might make – and watching it myself, I was reminded of the feeling I used to get when I was underoing serious training, before I was really completely compliant – the feeling I got when I began to understand that I was a subservient male, and thats how it should be. That theres nothing abnormal about my life revolving completely around my girlfriend – that we are not equals, that other men are not my equal, but they are better than me. More manly, more capable – in every single way.

I suggest watching this a few times over if you are trying to become a subservient male, and if you are a superior female – I’d recommend having your hubby/boyfriend watch this on a loop for a few hours.

Woman’s World – Thoughts on chasity and Cuckolding

It’s a woman’s world…if she wants it to be. Many women don’t realise everything they could have if they wanted it. Never having to do dishes again, never mop, cook, take out the trash…never have to do anything – ever again! Simply by either breaking their current man, or finding a submissive man…by using their charms…a little training, and a little knowledge…they’d never have to lift a finger again.

Many women know this secret – but most don’t, and I blame that on a society that is constantly wearing away at female self-image and confidence. Women undersell themselves, they sell themselves short, even TO themselves. If they knew their own potential – I think they’d be staggered by what they found.

The breaking down and restructuring of a male is not always an easy task – but for many men it’s easier than you might think. Male genitalia rule their decision making…men cannot think when under the spell of a woman’s gaze, touch, or tease. By simply turning the desire on in your man, you can have him do anything. Of course chastity, is required for this, and is probably one of the hardest steps into breaking down your man, however if you can get your man in chastity – your 90% there.

Controlling the male orgasm is at the very root and core of resturcturing your male mentally and physically. You must control that which he desires most….sexual gratification – you must deny it. And – almost as importantly, you must NOT deny it from yourself! Either masturbation, having your man please you orally, or with toys, or even better, while he is in chastity – have him fuck you with a strap-on. All the work – none of the pleasure. Keep the idea that he might feel the glory of having his penis inside your pussy.

Cuckolding is another way I believe is very important to becoming a superior female. Just because your man’s penis is unusable due to either it being too small (which you should tell him on a constant basis), or because it is locked up due to training purposes – does NOT mean you do not deserve a nice thick cock inside you and pleasing you. Just because your man needs to be resturctured does not mean you should suffer any consequences for his innate inadequacies! Make sure your man knows your fucking other men, dating other men, building relationships with other men. It will activate his caveman instinct to compete – to earn your love and attention more. He will work harder for you, he will love you more. It is tough love – but in the long run, you will both benefit greatly!