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Poor Randy got left all alone, tied up to what seems to be the frame of a bed. His wife and Goddess, Starla, forgot all about him after their BDSM session earlier in the day. Finally Randy hears her footsteps coming his way and is relieved, thinking that she didn’t forget about him and was now going to let him out of bondage. Randy always lets his hopes become too high. Starla had indeed forgot about him, but stumbling upon him, already tied up and ready for her, she decides to continue their earlier BDSM play. With candle wax, clothespins and floggers, Randy is submitted to some cock and ball torture along with one hell of a tease and denial. Even when the phone rings, Randy can find no relief since his femdom Goddess is very good at multitasking  and manages to continue abusing him while carrying on a conversation! When Starla gets off the phone, in a hurry to go and get ready, she only pays mild attention to her cuckold slave, saying that he’ll be fine being bound for a couple more hours and then trots off leaving him, once again, all alone and unable to move.

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Femdom Stories of Ruined Orgasms

Goddess Starla from Femdom Bride rarely lets her cuckolded husband loser, Randy, have a nice orgasm. She will tease him for what seems like an eternity and just puts him back into chastity without letting him spill a drop of cum. Or she will bring him to orgasm only to stop giving  any stimulation to his cock so that he cums without any satisfaction, only a feeling of an empty orgasm. This time however, Mistress Starla has a different idea as she takes out rainbow clothespins and and a set of tongs. Besides the pain of the clothespins pinching his cock and balls, Randy is also brought to a humiliating climax by Starla using only the tongs to stimulate him.

You can tell just how pleased Starla is with herself, giggling as she awkwardly uses the tongs to squeeze Randy’s dick and rubs them up and down his shaft. Her eyes light up as Randy is unable to take any more of this teasing and the first spurt of cum flies out of his cock. Starla, immediatly stops moving the tongs so that poor Randy is not only humiliated by being able to cum from a pair of metal tongs, but also has his orgasm ruined by them.

Cock Crushing Femdom

Starla has done such a good job at training Randy that I sometimes wonder how he still manages to get himself into trouble. Then I saw one of the recent episodes on FemdomBride.com and realized that Starla likes to invent games that Randy cannot possibly win. I think she only does this when Randy is on a long ‘being good’ streak and she finds herself bored. The game she invented this time is quite amusing! She decided to step on Randy’s cock, crushing it for as long as she can. If Randy says stop before she has removed her foot on her own then Randy gets a certain number of days added to his time in chastity. Randy at one point seems like he could win and manages to really master himself over the pain. Starla however, has no intention of letting him win and crushes his manhood until he finally says stop. You can see the utter pain that Randy experiences painted accross his face. You can even see how hard he is trying not to give in so that he doesn’t end up with more days in chastity than he has already accumulated. Starla, on the other hand, is having a great time! She even tries to coach Randy through the pain at one point. She, to Randy’s dismay, humiliates him each time he loses at their game by giggling as she says the total number of days that his loss has led to. I’m not so sure that I would have done any better at this game than Randy did. Infact I’m almost sure that I would have done much much worse! In the end of the game he accumulated 19 days of straight chastity. Starla was thouroughly pleased with herself and with the new game that she invented. All I can say is thank god I misbahave enough that my Goddess does not have to make up torture games like this one to keep her life interesting!

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Finding a Bull

My girlfriend and I decided that it was time to explore my cuckold fantasies since I have managed to be in chastity without any complaints for awhile now. We figured the best way to do so was to scour the net for any potential Bulls…you wold not believe how easy it was to find a dozen or so that peaked her interest! Being the kind and loving Goddess that she is, I was given the task of chatting to some Bulls and once I approved of them I would give them my Goddess’s msn contact and she would take it from there. The first problem that we ran into was the fact that some Bulls seemed completely professional and experienced to me but turned out to be major jerks to her. I guess the issue was that both myself and my Goddess are new at this. She was fine with the idea of sleeping with other people but did not want to just sleep with anyone…it had to be someone that she was genuinely attracted to both physically and mentally. As she explained it, she would rather us find a Bull that we could both be friends with instead of someone who would ultimately have no respect for her. And that’s where our problem lies.

Having found a suitable Bull on an online chat room and explained our situation to him, I thought he would be the perfect man for her. Unfortunately, once he started talking to my Goddess it was quite evident that he ignored my advice of taking things slow and befriending her first and started harassing her with sexual comments right off the bat. Needless to say my Goddess was disgusted and couldn’t help but think that this is what I thought he wanted. She was angry at me for making her go through this and for not taking greater care when it came to picking a Bull that would be worthy of her… in the end it comes down to the fact that this rude Bull made her think “so this is what he thinks I am worthy of?!”. The experience nearly turned her off of the whole experiment and made me very angry both with myself and the Bull who had fooled me.

Our next attempt was through craigslist thinking that if we put out a personal ad, we would have plenty of choices to pick from and that we would perhaps find someone who is just as inexperienced as us. This was an overwhelming experience since we ended up with over a hundred or so people who were interested in us. Although we have yet to chose anyone from the responses, this technique did boost my Goddess’s confidence and renew her interest in finding someone for us to play with. She’s been chatting with four or so guys recently from the ad that we had put out and if all goes well one of them will have what she has been looking for! I’ll keep you all posted on the outcome of our search;)

All this to say that finding a Bull can be a difficult task especially if you do not want someone who just wants to get their rocks off and then leave. Although finding the ideal Bull for us means that this fantasy is going to take longer to fulfill, i wouldn’t have it any other way, my Goddess is worth so much more than that and she deserves to find a Bull that will respect her for all that she’s worth. Let me know if you have any suggestions or have tried to find a Bull yourselves!

The One Goal of a Cuckold

There’s only one goal in a cuckolded man’s life and that is to keep his Mistress or Goddess happy. The cuckold wants to keep his Goddess pleased with him even if it means licking her feet and shoes clean, giving blowjobs to dildos or even another man’s cock, doing all the household chores, being humiliated time and time again and also being sexual deprived by her. It’s the last item on this list that plays a key factor in why a cuckolded boyfriend or husband will devote himself to keeping his Mistress happy. Wouldn’t you want to keep someone happy if they were the only person who is able to allow you to feel your cock or reach an orgasm? By keeping their key holding ladies happy, they undoubtedly increase their chances of being allowed an orgasm….displease the Mistress and being let out of chastity can be pushed back by weeks let alone being allowed to cum! Put a chastity device on a man and suddenly it becomes clear as to why females are the superior gender.

In this gallery of Femdom Bride, Starla was fired from her job and is obviously very upset. But after a little attention and  service from her cuckold husband Randy, we notice that she seems to feel a bit better. Randy, it seems, knows his proper role and does a good job at keeping his Mistress as happy as she can be. We can be sure that it is only because Randy is so swift in assessing the situation and jumping at the opportunity to please his wife and Mistress Starla that he avoids being the her taking out her distress on him. And this is exactly how a well trained boyfriend or husband should be. Women should not have to asks us to make them happy whether it be by doing the dishes or getting on the floor and worshipping her feet. In fact, most women, even those who are not training cuckolded men, get upset when they have to ask us to compliment them or do something for them. This is because everytime they have to ask something of us, it shows them that we are not considerate enough to think about it on our own and this leads her to believe that we didn’t think about it because we were not thinking about her. You can see how bad this is because if we are not thinking about her, then the assumption is that she is not important to us. It is amazing how differently your mind works when you are in chastity. Because, as men, we have sexual thoughts throughout the day, we can’t help but link those thoughts to thoughts about our Mistress since she is the one now in power over our sexual gratification. Suddenly you go from giving no thought as to what little things you could do to make her smile, to scrounging around for any idea  of what to do to make her just a little bit happier! Ladies, if you want the perfect man in your life, you don’t need to replace the one you have, you just need to put him in his proper place  with a little patience, a chastity device, and a lot of training.

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Forced Subjugation vs Willful Participation

The Forced Subjugation approach

This group claims to obtain superior results by making it impossible for the male to escape control and punishment. Proponents of this method usually advocate restricting the male’s movement during discipline to prevent him from struggling or escaping. They are in favor of using higher security chastity devices and sometimes use blackmailing to ensure compliance. They believe that it is natural for a male to initially struggle and try to resist control, but that once he understands there is no escape he will quickly lose any desire to resist (in animal training lingo, his resistance has become an “extinct” behavior due to its ineffectiveness). Some women who follow this method care little about how the male feels about his situation, and often even enjoy seeing their male’s internal resistance defeated (“breaking”). But a large majority of women who buy into this “forced subjugation” training philosophy are simply trying to take their male to the “breaking” point quickly and hoping he will soon come to accept his condition, enabling a milder (and less tiring) form of discipline down the road.

The Willful Participation approach

The second school of thought claims to obtain superior results by putting the male in a state in which he will offer voluntary compliance. This philosophy advocates the training of a male in his inner, mental world. It aims at persuading him to eventually relinquish his independence, in favor of a more fulfilling role in acceptance of female authority. This group claims that the quality of voluntary servitude is long-lasting and cannot be approached by coercive methods, and that it is a male’s self-image and value system that needs to be reframed before lasting change can be seen in his behavior. Proponents of this philosophy do not always refrain from coercion, especially in the beginning stages of training – however, they invariably single out the budding of a male’s voluntary compliance (“willful participation”) as the “breaking point” to achieve.

Different interpretations of male chastity

Any male training approach can much benefit from increased seminal volume, as this fluid is known to function as an intoxicant, overcoming his logic and greatly reducing his mental defenses, leaving ample opportunity for behavior modification. However, while the forced subjugation approach sees chastity as merely a way to keep the male frustrated and receptive, willful participation exploits increased levels of sexual desire in a male to reframe his sexual identity. Willful participation proponents emphasize the sexualization of obedience in a male’s mind, mirroring the all too infrequent ”spontaneous” subservience of naturally submissive males. Obedience and humiliation are sexualized through chastity and by association/anchoring until the male starts to see his own subjugation and self-sacrifice as the most appealing (or the only conceivable) form of sexual relief.

Criticism

Some opponents of the forced subjugation philosophy often refer to it as antiquate or barbaric. However, it is widely believed that only the lack of legal infrastructure has delayed its adoption. In a recently conducted poll, only 15% of women were in favor of a paramilitary “male police” enforcing pre-marital engagement contracts and wedding certificates with male ownership clauses (citizenship resignation, personhood renouncement, personal ownership affidavits). Likely, as feminist groups and female-owned corporations continue to lobby public opinion and policy will eventually change. A large number of women who currently practice the forced subjugation philosophy inside close doors are then expected to come out of the closet tilting the statistics.

Opponents of the “willful participation” philosophy often complain about inconsistent compliance and intermittent usefulness of males undergoing this type of training. However, DreamLover Labs products add to a regular willful participation regimen the many benefits of positive punishment and negative reinforcement and guarantee consistent obedience even at early training stages.

For the time being, the “willful participation” philosophy is poised to become a favorite among newly liberated women. If you are new to male training, unless you have a particularly stubborn male on your hands, you will find this approach a lot easier as it requires less supervision and monetary investment. For reasons of practicality and convenience, most school counselors recommend young girls to solve their boyfriend problems with the willful participation method, further accelerating its spread among young couples.

Source: Dream Lover Labs

Forced Bi-Sexuality

Forced bi-sexuality is another tool I consider to be of great use to many girlfriends and wives. Forcing your man into experiencing what you’ve had to deal with your entire sexual life brings him down a few notches I think. Being forced to have a cock in his throat will make him understand all the sacrifices you’ve had to make – it will make him appreciate you more, and he will understand how lucky he was when he was allowed having sexual pleasure – and if you still give him oral/vaginal pleasure, it will make him realise just how lucky he is to get it!

I don’t have a huge amount to say on the topic, aside from that when I have been forced into bisexuality by my girlfriend, these were the thoughts that went through my mind. Serious appreciation of all the things my girlfriend had done for me before I started my training, and made me long for the days before my castration (not literal castration, but due to long term chastity, she refers to it as castration).

I chose this artwork because it…well…it turns me on. I can’t do anything about that feeling obviously, but never the less – I enjoy the imagery. Personally though – I have never been forced into bisexuality with another submissive…it was always with one of my girlfriends’ lovers – and I think the fact that I was forced to pleasure a bull instead of another sub, is that it re-affirmed my insufficiency…my feminity, my lack of manhood, my lack of manliness, and helped to secure the fact that I am not enough of a lover, or man to satisfy my partner. These key facts that are constantly repeated are the essence of training…and speaking from the point of view of someone who has undergone it for a long period of time, and is still being shaped and molded…I can honestly say…it is unbelievably effective. It’s been a long time since I’ve even thought of myself as a man, or a male. I consider myself something in between. I am like an eneuch.

Compliance Conditioning

Note: Unforunately the video I was linking to on youtube was removed by the user that posted it

This video is really quite something else. It reminds me of something Andy Warhol might make – and watching it myself, I was reminded of the feeling I used to get when I was underoing serious training, before I was really completely compliant – the feeling I got when I began to understand that I was a subservient male, and thats how it should be. That theres nothing abnormal about my life revolving completely around my girlfriend – that we are not equals, that other men are not my equal, but they are better than me. More manly, more capable – in every single way.

I suggest watching this a few times over if you are trying to become a subservient male, and if you are a superior female – I’d recommend having your hubby/boyfriend watch this on a loop for a few hours.

Woman’s World – Thoughts on chasity and Cuckolding

It’s a woman’s world…if she wants it to be. Many women don’t realise everything they could have if they wanted it. Never having to do dishes again, never mop, cook, take out the trash…never have to do anything – ever again! Simply by either breaking their current man, or finding a submissive man…by using their charms…a little training, and a little knowledge…they’d never have to lift a finger again.

Many women know this secret – but most don’t, and I blame that on a society that is constantly wearing away at female self-image and confidence. Women undersell themselves, they sell themselves short, even TO themselves. If they knew their own potential – I think they’d be staggered by what they found.

The breaking down and restructuring of a male is not always an easy task – but for many men it’s easier than you might think. Male genitalia rule their decision making…men cannot think when under the spell of a woman’s gaze, touch, or tease. By simply turning the desire on in your man, you can have him do anything. Of course chastity, is required for this, and is probably one of the hardest steps into breaking down your man, however if you can get your man in chastity – your 90% there.

Controlling the male orgasm is at the very root and core of resturcturing your male mentally and physically. You must control that which he desires most….sexual gratification – you must deny it. And – almost as importantly, you must NOT deny it from yourself! Either masturbation, having your man please you orally, or with toys, or even better, while he is in chastity – have him fuck you with a strap-on. All the work – none of the pleasure. Keep the idea that he might feel the glory of having his penis inside your pussy.

Cuckolding is another way I believe is very important to becoming a superior female. Just because your man’s penis is unusable due to either it being too small (which you should tell him on a constant basis), or because it is locked up due to training purposes – does NOT mean you do not deserve a nice thick cock inside you and pleasing you. Just because your man needs to be resturctured does not mean you should suffer any consequences for his innate inadequacies! Make sure your man knows your fucking other men, dating other men, building relationships with other men. It will activate his caveman instinct to compete – to earn your love and attention more. He will work harder for you, he will love you more. It is tough love – but in the long run, you will both benefit greatly!

Forced Masturbation of Puppy Slave

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Forced masturbation is one of the tools in a superior female’s arsenal that is akin to a doctor’s scalpal. It’s precise – not brutish, but inflicts a humiliation that digs deep into the male phsyc. Men masturbate a lot – however for many men it is something shameful at first, and then becomes natural, however it is always something very private and personal. Masturbation for men is a crutch – one that when used against them properly is an amazing tool for breaking down a male, and rebuilding him as a proper, subservient houseboy.

Femdombride.com which I brag about quite a bit because it’s pretty much the only site I’ve found that documents a couple that live in a 24/7 female dominant relationship that involves chastity, and cuckolding, as well as other forms of severe female domination. Have a look at the gallery that I posted and you’ll see a good example of forced masturbation. Taking this deeply private and intimate moment, and forcing her submissive husband to do it while kneeling at her feet breaks down his confidence, and opens up his vulnerabilities to her. It is one tool in an arsenal of tools available to her, that she uses on a constant basis.

Deep humiliation from prodding him while he is in his cage, waxing him, squirting water in his face – these are all things that break his confidence…repetition of these acts causes severe lack of confidence in Randy (the husband) – and it is extremely informative, and entertaining to watch, which you can do inside of Femdombride.com – which updates weekly, and has TONS of extras for you to enjoy. I simply love this site, and honestly I’ll probably talk a lot about it in more posts as it offers SO many good examples to talk about female superiority in the real world!