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The One Goal of a Cuckold

There’s only one goal in a cuckolded man’s life and that is to keep his Mistress or Goddess happy. The cuckold wants to keep his Goddess pleased with him even if it means licking her feet and shoes clean, giving blowjobs to dildos or even another man’s cock, doing all the household chores, being humiliated time and time again and also being sexual deprived by her. It’s the last item on this list that plays a key factor in why a cuckolded boyfriend or husband will devote himself to keeping his Mistress happy. Wouldn’t you want to keep someone happy if they were the only person who is able to allow you to feel your cock or reach an orgasm? By keeping their key holding ladies happy, they undoubtedly increase their chances of being allowed an orgasm….displease the Mistress and being let out of chastity can be pushed back by weeks let alone being allowed to cum! Put a chastity device on a man and suddenly it becomes clear as to why females are the superior gender.

In this gallery of Femdom Bride, Starla was fired from her job and is obviously very upset. But after a little attention and  service from her cuckold husband Randy, we notice that she seems to feel a bit better. Randy, it seems, knows his proper role and does a good job at keeping his Mistress as happy as she can be. We can be sure that it is only because Randy is so swift in assessing the situation and jumping at the opportunity to please his wife and Mistress Starla that he avoids being the her taking out her distress on him. And this is exactly how a well trained boyfriend or husband should be. Women should not have to asks us to make them happy whether it be by doing the dishes or getting on the floor and worshipping her feet. In fact, most women, even those who are not training cuckolded men, get upset when they have to ask us to compliment them or do something for them. This is because everytime they have to ask something of us, it shows them that we are not considerate enough to think about it on our own and this leads her to believe that we didn’t think about it because we were not thinking about her. You can see how bad this is because if we are not thinking about her, then the assumption is that she is not important to us. It is amazing how differently your mind works when you are in chastity. Because, as men, we have sexual thoughts throughout the day, we can’t help but link those thoughts to thoughts about our Mistress since she is the one now in power over our sexual gratification. Suddenly you go from giving no thought as to what little things you could do to make her smile, to scrounging around for any idea  of what to do to make her just a little bit happier! Ladies, if you want the perfect man in your life, you don’t need to replace the one you have, you just need to put him in his proper place  with a little patience, a chastity device, and a lot of training.

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Forced Subjugation vs Willful Participation

The Forced Subjugation approach

This group claims to obtain superior results by making it impossible for the male to escape control and punishment. Proponents of this method usually advocate restricting the male’s movement during discipline to prevent him from struggling or escaping. They are in favor of using higher security chastity devices and sometimes use blackmailing to ensure compliance. They believe that it is natural for a male to initially struggle and try to resist control, but that once he understands there is no escape he will quickly lose any desire to resist (in animal training lingo, his resistance has become an “extinct” behavior due to its ineffectiveness). Some women who follow this method care little about how the male feels about his situation, and often even enjoy seeing their male’s internal resistance defeated (“breaking”). But a large majority of women who buy into this “forced subjugation” training philosophy are simply trying to take their male to the “breaking” point quickly and hoping he will soon come to accept his condition, enabling a milder (and less tiring) form of discipline down the road.

The Willful Participation approach

The second school of thought claims to obtain superior results by putting the male in a state in which he will offer voluntary compliance. This philosophy advocates the training of a male in his inner, mental world. It aims at persuading him to eventually relinquish his independence, in favor of a more fulfilling role in acceptance of female authority. This group claims that the quality of voluntary servitude is long-lasting and cannot be approached by coercive methods, and that it is a male’s self-image and value system that needs to be reframed before lasting change can be seen in his behavior. Proponents of this philosophy do not always refrain from coercion, especially in the beginning stages of training – however, they invariably single out the budding of a male’s voluntary compliance (“willful participation”) as the “breaking point” to achieve.

Different interpretations of male chastity

Any male training approach can much benefit from increased seminal volume, as this fluid is known to function as an intoxicant, overcoming his logic and greatly reducing his mental defenses, leaving ample opportunity for behavior modification. However, while the forced subjugation approach sees chastity as merely a way to keep the male frustrated and receptive, willful participation exploits increased levels of sexual desire in a male to reframe his sexual identity. Willful participation proponents emphasize the sexualization of obedience in a male’s mind, mirroring the all too infrequent ”spontaneous” subservience of naturally submissive males. Obedience and humiliation are sexualized through chastity and by association/anchoring until the male starts to see his own subjugation and self-sacrifice as the most appealing (or the only conceivable) form of sexual relief.

Criticism

Some opponents of the forced subjugation philosophy often refer to it as antiquate or barbaric. However, it is widely believed that only the lack of legal infrastructure has delayed its adoption. In a recently conducted poll, only 15% of women were in favor of a paramilitary “male police” enforcing pre-marital engagement contracts and wedding certificates with male ownership clauses (citizenship resignation, personhood renouncement, personal ownership affidavits). Likely, as feminist groups and female-owned corporations continue to lobby public opinion and policy will eventually change. A large number of women who currently practice the forced subjugation philosophy inside close doors are then expected to come out of the closet tilting the statistics.

Opponents of the “willful participation” philosophy often complain about inconsistent compliance and intermittent usefulness of males undergoing this type of training. However, DreamLover Labs products add to a regular willful participation regimen the many benefits of positive punishment and negative reinforcement and guarantee consistent obedience even at early training stages.

For the time being, the “willful participation” philosophy is poised to become a favorite among newly liberated women. If you are new to male training, unless you have a particularly stubborn male on your hands, you will find this approach a lot easier as it requires less supervision and monetary investment. For reasons of practicality and convenience, most school counselors recommend young girls to solve their boyfriend problems with the willful participation method, further accelerating its spread among young couples.

Source: Dream Lover Labs

A Good Femdom Routine

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This is another wonderful gallery from Femdombride.com – the lifestyle documentary website that follows around a couple that live a 24/7 female superior marriage. It’s a great example of what superior female should do on an almost nightly basis – at least until your male is sufficiently trained. It requires a lot of attention, and a lot of discipline on the female’s end. It requires working your boyfriend/husband’s cock until the precum is flowing, and then having the nerve to simply lock it up.

This may seem easy, but really it takes a lot of training and discipline from the female perspective as well. You still love your boyfriend/husband, and often it’s like a puppy…you look at it’s big round eyes – begging you. You have to be strong enough to deny it. To push it to it’s edge – so that the mental reconditioning can truly take place. You must use this awesome tool, his horniness to make both of your lives happy.

Does the superior female not deserve a PROPER penis to enjoy? Does it not deserve to have all the chores done? I firmly believe that women are the superior end of the species, and we reconditioned males are pioneering a new age. I do believe that there are still men out there (with big manly cocks) that are needed…many superior females love to be pounded and dominated by real men – but as reconditioned sissy males, we are not to decide who our wives/girlfriends enjoy…

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Being a cuckolded submissive husband/boyfriend is extremely hard at first – it is proof positive that we are not good enough, and our egos are initially bruised. It hurts – even if you fantasize about this kind of thing, you’ll find yourself wracked with jealousy and hurt – this is part of the training process. It helps us to realize how valuable our girlfriends/wives are! How lucky we are to have them! And how happy we should be that they are enjoy a cock that satisfies them – that they are enjoying intimacy with someone that can give them everything they want – because be honest…if you could do everything your wife/girlfriend’s lover could – you would not be a sissified husband slave.

Chastity and servitude are our savior – why keep up the charade? Why keep lying to ourselves even? Embrace your dicklet – embrace your constant overwhelming horniness and put it to good use!

Tease and Denial

A superior female I believe needs to train herself a little bit before she can properly train her man. She needs to change her mindset – and change her habits. Habitually, most women in sexual relationships are happy to relieve their men when they are needy. However as a superior female, one of the biggest goals is to keep your man as needy as possible. This is a complete shift in your thinking patterns.

When my girlfriend first started training me, she would catch herself trying to get me off…to cum, so that I’d stop bugging her. It took a little time for her to be able to do what you see in this artwork – it took practice on her part. She had to begin to USE my neediness against me – to keep me horny, in order to do things to deserve that which I ultimately wanted…release.

It is SO important for superior females to pay a lot of attention to your man’s penis – total neglect will have opposite effects. We will believe you just don’t care, and we will become resentful – as much as this is about you, and fulfilling your happiness as a superior female – during much of the training process you need to be extremely involved. Constantly make sure your keeping your man horny, keep him thinking that this moment might be THE moment he gets release…of course, never give it to him, at least not very often. Once a week to start, and after several week – boost it up to 2 weeks then 3, and eventually up to several months in between his orgasms. But all the while, give him a stroke here…put your mouth around his chastity device, breath heavily on it, rub it while you watch a movie together…the crazier he is with horniness, the easier his mental reconditioning will be! Keep him shaking.

Remember – your man is still an individual with a logical brain…you need to interrupt his thought processes…luckily with men this is easy – just keep blood in his penis, and his brain will have less to work with. As long as his cock is full, and his balls are full, his brain will not work properly – this allows for the fertile soil in his brain in which you need to plant the seeds of his mental reconditioning into being a completely subservient man. True belief in female superiority is essential. He must believe that being denied orgasms for months on end is for his own good.

But as always – make sure he knows your getting a cock that is worthy of you on a regular basis. He must not think that you are being denied something because of him. Make it readily aware that you are sleeping with other men, and even better – try and involve him in it. Check out my post on forced bi-sexuality, as it has a few other helpful tips on getting your man mentally reconditioned.

Compliance Conditioning

Note: Unforunately the video I was linking to on youtube was removed by the user that posted it

This video is really quite something else. It reminds me of something Andy Warhol might make – and watching it myself, I was reminded of the feeling I used to get when I was underoing serious training, before I was really completely compliant – the feeling I got when I began to understand that I was a subservient male, and thats how it should be. That theres nothing abnormal about my life revolving completely around my girlfriend – that we are not equals, that other men are not my equal, but they are better than me. More manly, more capable – in every single way.

I suggest watching this a few times over if you are trying to become a subservient male, and if you are a superior female – I’d recommend having your hubby/boyfriend watch this on a loop for a few hours.

Forced Masturbation of Puppy Slave

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Forced masturbation is one of the tools in a superior female’s arsenal that is akin to a doctor’s scalpal. It’s precise – not brutish, but inflicts a humiliation that digs deep into the male phsyc. Men masturbate a lot – however for many men it is something shameful at first, and then becomes natural, however it is always something very private and personal. Masturbation for men is a crutch – one that when used against them properly is an amazing tool for breaking down a male, and rebuilding him as a proper, subservient houseboy.

Femdombride.com which I brag about quite a bit because it’s pretty much the only site I’ve found that documents a couple that live in a 24/7 female dominant relationship that involves chastity, and cuckolding, as well as other forms of severe female domination. Have a look at the gallery that I posted and you’ll see a good example of forced masturbation. Taking this deeply private and intimate moment, and forcing her submissive husband to do it while kneeling at her feet breaks down his confidence, and opens up his vulnerabilities to her. It is one tool in an arsenal of tools available to her, that she uses on a constant basis.

Deep humiliation from prodding him while he is in his cage, waxing him, squirting water in his face – these are all things that break his confidence…repetition of these acts causes severe lack of confidence in Randy (the husband) – and it is extremely informative, and entertaining to watch, which you can do inside of Femdombride.com – which updates weekly, and has TONS of extras for you to enjoy. I simply love this site, and honestly I’ll probably talk a lot about it in more posts as it offers SO many good examples to talk about female superiority in the real world!