Sissification

Sissification and forced cross dressing are valuable tools for any Goddess to exert power over her cuckold or slave. The act of forcing a man to dress, act and speak as a girl would, belittles him and humiliates him into accepting his Goddess’s superiority. Think about Orlando’s discovery of how restrictive and confining female clothes were when he/she venture back to London. For me though, I find that I quite enjoy being forced to cross dress, simply because I dabbled in cross dressing on my own on for a long time. I think that I am just so in awe of the female form and of females in general that I almost want to imitate them. It’s kind of like when you are young and you watch your favorite rock star on stage or your favorite action hero and so you play all these fantasy games where you are the rock star or you are the hero who is battling your always resurrected foe and enemy. I admire females so much so that in my own fantastical and imaginary world, I am one. There’s nothing that gives me greater pleasure than when my Mistress tells me I look beautiful and sexy in my sheer back stockings and stilettos or as when she commends me on how well i can walk in those six inch slutty heels!

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Finding a Bull

My girlfriend and I decided that it was time to explore my cuckold fantasies since I have managed to be in chastity without any complaints for awhile now. We figured the best way to do so was to scour the net for any potential Bulls…you wold not believe how easy it was to find a dozen or so that peaked her interest! Being the kind and loving Goddess that she is, I was given the task of chatting to some Bulls and once I approved of them I would give them my Goddess’s msn contact and she would take it from there. The first problem that we ran into was the fact that some Bulls seemed completely professional and experienced to me but turned out to be major jerks to her. I guess the issue was that both myself and my Goddess are new at this. She was fine with the idea of sleeping with other people but did not want to just sleep with anyone…it had to be someone that she was genuinely attracted to both physically and mentally. As she explained it, she would rather us find a Bull that we could both be friends with instead of someone who would ultimately have no respect for her. And that’s where our problem lies.

Having found a suitable Bull on an online chat room and explained our situation to him, I thought he would be the perfect man for her. Unfortunately, once he started talking to my Goddess it was quite evident that he ignored my advice of taking things slow and befriending her first and started harassing her with sexual comments right off the bat. Needless to say my Goddess was disgusted and couldn’t help but think that this is what I thought he wanted. She was angry at me for making her go through this and for not taking greater care when it came to picking a Bull that would be worthy of her… in the end it comes down to the fact that this rude Bull made her think “so this is what he thinks I am worthy of?!”. The experience nearly turned her off of the whole experiment and made me very angry both with myself and the Bull who had fooled me.

Our next attempt was through craigslist thinking that if we put out a personal ad, we would have plenty of choices to pick from and that we would perhaps find someone who is just as inexperienced as us. This was an overwhelming experience since we ended up with over a hundred or so people who were interested in us. Although we have yet to chose anyone from the responses, this technique did boost my Goddess’s confidence and renew her interest in finding someone for us to play with. She’s been chatting with four or so guys recently from the ad that we had put out and if all goes well one of them will have what she has been looking for! I’ll keep you all posted on the outcome of our search;)

All this to say that finding a Bull can be a difficult task especially if you do not want someone who just wants to get their rocks off and then leave. Although finding the ideal Bull for us means that this fantasy is going to take longer to fulfill, i wouldn’t have it any other way, my Goddess is worth so much more than that and she deserves to find a Bull that will respect her for all that she’s worth. Let me know if you have any suggestions or have tried to find a Bull yourselves!

Not One but Two Goddesses!

Ahhh Randy, sometimes I am just so jealous of you! Not to say that my own Goddess and key holder isn’t the most beautiful woman in the world to me. But how lucky you are to be treated to having two Goddesses doming you at the same time! It’s always been a fantasy  of mine to have my Goddess bring a friend over, surprising me while I am in my heels and wearing my all too skimpy maid’s outfit that shows off the fact that I am in chastity whenever I bend over….and to ultimately be humiliated by the two gorgeous women. Watching this video made me so horny…. so much so that I feel as if my cock could burst through its confining chastity device.

What I wouldn’t give to be able to trade places with Randy for just that one day! Being forced to worship two different yet perfectly arched feet…. and clean these Goddesses’ boots and heels as they chatter on to each other and make snide comments about my shortcomings. Although the punishments given by not one but two Mistresses must be all that much harsher…it would so be worth it! This bithc-boy of a husband has no idea how lucky he is to have such a succulent Femdom for a Bride.

The One Goal of a Cuckold

There’s only one goal in a cuckolded man’s life and that is to keep his Mistress or Goddess happy. The cuckold wants to keep his Goddess pleased with him even if it means licking her feet and shoes clean, giving blowjobs to dildos or even another man’s cock, doing all the household chores, being humiliated time and time again and also being sexual deprived by her. It’s the last item on this list that plays a key factor in why a cuckolded boyfriend or husband will devote himself to keeping his Mistress happy. Wouldn’t you want to keep someone happy if they were the only person who is able to allow you to feel your cock or reach an orgasm? By keeping their key holding ladies happy, they undoubtedly increase their chances of being allowed an orgasm….displease the Mistress and being let out of chastity can be pushed back by weeks let alone being allowed to cum! Put a chastity device on a man and suddenly it becomes clear as to why females are the superior gender.

In this gallery of Femdom Bride, Starla was fired from her job and is obviously very upset. But after a little attention and  service from her cuckold husband Randy, we notice that she seems to feel a bit better. Randy, it seems, knows his proper role and does a good job at keeping his Mistress as happy as she can be. We can be sure that it is only because Randy is so swift in assessing the situation and jumping at the opportunity to please his wife and Mistress Starla that he avoids being the her taking out her distress on him. And this is exactly how a well trained boyfriend or husband should be. Women should not have to asks us to make them happy whether it be by doing the dishes or getting on the floor and worshipping her feet. In fact, most women, even those who are not training cuckolded men, get upset when they have to ask us to compliment them or do something for them. This is because everytime they have to ask something of us, it shows them that we are not considerate enough to think about it on our own and this leads her to believe that we didn’t think about it because we were not thinking about her. You can see how bad this is because if we are not thinking about her, then the assumption is that she is not important to us. It is amazing how differently your mind works when you are in chastity. Because, as men, we have sexual thoughts throughout the day, we can’t help but link those thoughts to thoughts about our Mistress since she is the one now in power over our sexual gratification. Suddenly you go from giving no thought as to what little things you could do to make her smile, to scrounging around for any idea  of what to do to make her just a little bit happier! Ladies, if you want the perfect man in your life, you don’t need to replace the one you have, you just need to put him in his proper place  with a little patience, a chastity device, and a lot of training.

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Forced Subjugation vs Willful Participation

The Forced Subjugation approach

This group claims to obtain superior results by making it impossible for the male to escape control and punishment. Proponents of this method usually advocate restricting the male’s movement during discipline to prevent him from struggling or escaping. They are in favor of using higher security chastity devices and sometimes use blackmailing to ensure compliance. They believe that it is natural for a male to initially struggle and try to resist control, but that once he understands there is no escape he will quickly lose any desire to resist (in animal training lingo, his resistance has become an “extinct” behavior due to its ineffectiveness). Some women who follow this method care little about how the male feels about his situation, and often even enjoy seeing their male’s internal resistance defeated (“breaking”). But a large majority of women who buy into this “forced subjugation” training philosophy are simply trying to take their male to the “breaking” point quickly and hoping he will soon come to accept his condition, enabling a milder (and less tiring) form of discipline down the road.

The Willful Participation approach

The second school of thought claims to obtain superior results by putting the male in a state in which he will offer voluntary compliance. This philosophy advocates the training of a male in his inner, mental world. It aims at persuading him to eventually relinquish his independence, in favor of a more fulfilling role in acceptance of female authority. This group claims that the quality of voluntary servitude is long-lasting and cannot be approached by coercive methods, and that it is a male’s self-image and value system that needs to be reframed before lasting change can be seen in his behavior. Proponents of this philosophy do not always refrain from coercion, especially in the beginning stages of training – however, they invariably single out the budding of a male’s voluntary compliance (“willful participation”) as the “breaking point” to achieve.

Different interpretations of male chastity

Any male training approach can much benefit from increased seminal volume, as this fluid is known to function as an intoxicant, overcoming his logic and greatly reducing his mental defenses, leaving ample opportunity for behavior modification. However, while the forced subjugation approach sees chastity as merely a way to keep the male frustrated and receptive, willful participation exploits increased levels of sexual desire in a male to reframe his sexual identity. Willful participation proponents emphasize the sexualization of obedience in a male’s mind, mirroring the all too infrequent ”spontaneous” subservience of naturally submissive males. Obedience and humiliation are sexualized through chastity and by association/anchoring until the male starts to see his own subjugation and self-sacrifice as the most appealing (or the only conceivable) form of sexual relief.

Criticism

Some opponents of the forced subjugation philosophy often refer to it as antiquate or barbaric. However, it is widely believed that only the lack of legal infrastructure has delayed its adoption. In a recently conducted poll, only 15% of women were in favor of a paramilitary “male police” enforcing pre-marital engagement contracts and wedding certificates with male ownership clauses (citizenship resignation, personhood renouncement, personal ownership affidavits). Likely, as feminist groups and female-owned corporations continue to lobby public opinion and policy will eventually change. A large number of women who currently practice the forced subjugation philosophy inside close doors are then expected to come out of the closet tilting the statistics.

Opponents of the “willful participation” philosophy often complain about inconsistent compliance and intermittent usefulness of males undergoing this type of training. However, DreamLover Labs products add to a regular willful participation regimen the many benefits of positive punishment and negative reinforcement and guarantee consistent obedience even at early training stages.

For the time being, the “willful participation” philosophy is poised to become a favorite among newly liberated women. If you are new to male training, unless you have a particularly stubborn male on your hands, you will find this approach a lot easier as it requires less supervision and monetary investment. For reasons of practicality and convenience, most school counselors recommend young girls to solve their boyfriend problems with the willful participation method, further accelerating its spread among young couples.

Source: Dream Lover Labs