I’ve gotten a lot of different emails from people since I started this blog. One of the main topics that seems to come up again and again is how does one go about finding a Femdom Goddess to serve under. Personally I found my Goddess through Alt.com but more about that later because it took me awhile to get to this point in my life. If you’re anything like me, it was not an easy task finding the women with whom i would pledge eternal servitude to. It involved a lot of relationships which fell apart once it became clear what I really wanted and then it involved a ton of awkward ones where things just did not seem to fit well together. After all finding a Goddess is not as easy as shacking up with just about anybody. You don’t just want to serve any women. You ultimately want to serve one whom you love, or grow to love and who in turn harbors feelings for you. You can’t have a good Femdom relationship without having feelings for each other, if you do, then it is very cold and business like. More so than in a normal vanilla type relationship, you can’t just go to a bar and hope on meeting the perfect someone for you. Well, I mean you could do that but your chances of finding someone who will want to live in a female dominated relationship are slim to none.
So how exactly do you go about finding a women who would be more than happy to have you as her slave, foot stool and little sissy boy? Well there are a couple of alternatives. You can try getting out more in your local fetish scene. Of course you might not find exactly what you are looking for, but there’s also a chance that you might! Going out to local fetish events and becoming part of the BDSM community in your area will not only let you meet tons of great people but you’ll also have a better chance at meeting a women who wants the same things in a relationship as you do. Plus you get to serve multiple women at some of these events!
Another idea is to go online. Yes we all know the cliches of online dating sites, but you won’t be going to any sites called harmony or anything of that kind. When it comes to the BDSM community, dating sites are not cliches. Rather, they help us find people with whom our desires and fetishes are shared. There are quite a couple if sites out there but from personal experience I trust Alt.com the most. It’s been around for a long time and has gained a lot of popularity world wide. This means that you have many more profiles to browse than at the other BDSM dating sites and thus obviously have a better chance at finding someone who sparks your interest. This BDSM dating site caters to almost every kind of fetish out there! Give it a try and check it out. I wish all of you the best of luck and can only hope that you are as lucky as me and find the Goddess you are searching for! Oh and leave comments letting me know about your own experiences whether they are about you finding your Goddess or just about your own experiences on dating sites!
